In our club there were two women who owned an Esprit because their husbands also owned a Lotus; there was also one woman who owned a Europa.
However, other than wives of men who own a Lotus, I've not known of any woman who has been interested in these cars to even the slightest degree. In 14 years I've not known of any woman who's given my car a second glance, either on the road or parked. Certainly none have ever asked me about it or made any comment. Rather, it is the men or teenage males who are curious and ask questions.
For example, a few years ago, as I pulled into a gas station, there were two young boys, not even teenagers, who recognized my '84 as a Lotus. I was impressed, as Lotus had long been out of Formula 1 (where many of us first heard of Lotus) and in this city a Lotus is a very rare sight.
The car to get women's attention is not a Lotus (nor probably any car that men find highly appealing). I imagine women would find a Miata or new Mini more intriguing.
-Dave