Divorce laws

[Barrykearley]

Of that I have no doubt.

I will simply sit back and allow whatever happens to trundle on. It’s only a matter of time before her luck runs out and I just hope she doesn’t kill anyone when it does.

in the meantime I’m just awaiting the next installment of hate from an Elizabeth Griffiths to drop through the door 🤣

[Dave Eds]

Lol @Frickin_idiotFrickin_idiot for mentioning justice

[Barrykearley]

And today the estate agents have dumped the house. They have issued a 28 day termination of contract notice and cited one particular party as the reason for doing so. The letter is rather damning. 
 

ho hum……

[tim_marra]

51 minutes ago, Barrykearley said:

And today the estate agents have dumped the house. They have issued a 28 day termination of contract notice and cited one particular party as the reason for doing so. The letter is rather damning. 
 

ho hum……

Good/further evidence of her anti social behaviour though? Enjoy a glass or two of wine Barry, with my wholehearted support and good wishes.

[Barrykearley]

Her solicitors are now back acting.

had a letter yesterday which among other things demanded the ashes of one of the kids dogs to be returned to her. Absolutely beyond belief frankly.

[C8RKH]

I would suspect the Solicitors association to take a dim view of the way they are acting. But then, I'm not a solicitor and we know how the professions like to close ranks. 

If it was the kids dog, then surely the ashes belong to the kid? Or is this just more controlling behaviour?

[Barrykearley]

It’s not just dogs ashes - 2 blanket boxes, 2 pictures, a log basket and a carpet cleaner.

 

@C8RKHthis is despite a very clear clean break consent order that draws a line under any claim. How the hell they had the brass neck to put that in writing is beyond me and it’s clearly abusive. This solicitor also knows what is in the consent order - so it’s bang out of line.

[Kimbers]

Can you complain to the Law society? They take a dim view on misrepresentation and breaking rules. Isn't it also breaking her rule not to contact you indirectly especially when there is a clean break consent order in place?

[Barrykearley]

Thanks @Kimbers I have tonight reported her and the solicitors. Thinking about it there’s issues without doubt. I have also sent a copy of the police report to the solicitors along with their “complaints email” and told them in no uncertain terms to desist in this behaviour. It is harassment along with malicious communications.

[Barrykearley]

This morning I awake to an email from the police.

No further action for the ramming of my van. The system is broken. 

[C8RKH]

I guess it just goes in to the "no real harm done and can't be arsed" box?

I am assuming her insurance is paying up?

What with this, the other incidents, and her drink driving, I will be surprised if she can get insurance in the future.

[Barrykearley]

And the circus still rumbles on.

After a chaotic week of work we got back home about 1845 last night exhausted. By 1930 I have a police officer at my door concerned for the welfare of my ex. 

Thanks for that - not once have they visited my kids or me concerned about our welfare at the hands of that woman. They got my opinion in no uncertain terms. Even more amazing is the source of the report - which is the woman who they have still yet to arrest due to hate mail………. But they are due to apparently 

The kids do not need to see the police on our drive and discussing such things and I kept the officer outside and the door shut.

[Frickin_idiot]

On 21/06/2024 at 10:03, C8RKH said:

I guess it just goes in to the "no real harm done and can't be arsed" box?

I am assuming her insurance is paying up?

What with this, the other incidents, and her drink driving, I will be surprised if she can get insurance in the future.

This is exactly what I find frustrating with the Police and Justice system. We have a two tiered system, this offence should be prosecuted. We all end up paying higher insurance bills. I’m quite sure if the boot was on the other foot then the system would be only too happy to prosecute.

44 minutes ago, Barrykearley said:

And the circus still rumbles on.

After a chaotic week of work we got back home about 1845 last night exhausted. By 1930 I have a police officer at my door concerned for the welfare of my ex. 

Thanks for that - not once have they visited my kids or me concerned about our welfare at the hands of that woman. They got my opinion in no uncertain terms. Even more amazing is the source of the report - which is the woman who they have still yet to arrest due to hate mail………. But they are due to apparently 

The kids do not need to see the police on our drive and discussing such things and I kept the officer outside and the door shut.

Do not hold you breath with police. My dog was nearly killed by an out of control Staffie, not an isolated incident by the dog by any means. The dog was loose (not the first time) directly opposite a school of 1000+ children. Despite 30+ phone calls the police are simply uninterested. 
 

If a child does get hurt I’ll be signing like a canary that the police failed in their duties.

[Barrykearley]

I’ve not posted much on here as it’s now very apparent the level of stalking and scrutiny all of my life is under by the ex and her solicitors. 
 

Court it is today. Maybe just maybe we will get some progress.

 

[Escape]

fingers crossed!

[Barrykearley]

Well that was an interesting day.

The ex didn’t attend but her solicitors did. Got absolutely everything addressed that was important and it would appear now we have a legal enforceable order and timescale for the completion of matters.

she will it seems get away with stealing £25k of garage equipment along with disposing of the kids stuff. That’s life and frankly I’m not bothered. We will build back bigger, better and stronger.

[Barrykearley]

Court went amazingly.

the screenshots from my eBay and from here were simply ignored by the judge. If anyone thinks they will silence my family or myself speaking out about the abuse we have suffered at the hands of that woman they can think again.

house will now be sold and that’s the end of matters 😎

This morning I’ve requested judgement on the van damage online. 
 

She didn’t attend court - too unwell and stressed apparently. The reality is the kids gave notice they were attending to remove possessions and she simply wanted to try and use more control. The kids never went there as they simply don’t wish to become involved in a spiralling police incident as it would have got nasty really quick.

[C8RKH]

So glad you are finally getting some justice Barry, for yourself, and the kids.

From what I've read the Police should be ashamed, right down to their core, due to their behaviour, lack of response and action. There should be calls for the Chief to go due to a lack of confidence in their ability to properly protect ALL citizens without prejudice.

I hope you all finally get the resolution and closure that you need, and have earned.

[Kimbers]

I won't comment apart from saying I am so pleased you are finally getting some closure Barry.

 

[tim_marra]

I wish all the very best Barry and family.

[Barrykearley]

What was most amusing was the reference in the legal pack before the hearing to the extension I have applied for on the barn. Apparently I have done it without her consent and it’s going to affect the value of the house…… ummmm hang on I’m hundreds of meters away from the main house and you won’t even be able to see it from there anyway.

its also apparent that she won’t be having the £2.5k to pay my eldest daughter as agreed every September while she’s at uni. So she will almost definitely breach that part of the court order and I will simply pick up the strain until the house sells.

In other news I’ve now applied for judgement on the damage to my van via the small claims track.

sadly the abuse we have all suffered will continue to some degree until she’s gone. But the future is bright for all of us and thanks so much for the best wishes guys ❤️

[Barrykearley]

Some new tools purchased today to allow some working from home 🤣

[C8RKH]

@Barrykearley most people just go to Primark for some new PJs when they're working from home. You just have to be different!

[Barrykearley]

Judgements now issued from county courts regarding the damage to my van. Now escalated to the high court for collection - wonder if it’ll make it onto can’t pay we will take it away. It’s brilliant having a step bro who’s a high court bailiff 😂😂

funny old thing -  rumour has it according to an anonymous source - no idea if it’s true or not I’ll just need to keep an eye on the papers - but it seems someone whom lives near me has indeed been pulled by the police and was indeed pissed….. 

sat watching the olympics after a hard few days at work with a lovely G&T loving life.

[Kimbers]

Karma mate. It always catches people up!