I was borderline at the original vote but felt we would be marginally better of economically staying in and continuing to work reforming the EU from inside. The uk has always acted as a bit of a brake on some of the more integrationist aspects of the EU. Since the referendum went brexit I knew we would not be able to negotiate a good deal. The EU has a reputation for being tough trade negotiators (google comments from us trade delegations).
Now we have a not great deal on the table which was inevitable and with the backstop we have handed the EU a massive club to wield in negotiations of future trade relations. The EU will use that (French and Spanish fishing rights etc.)
Its sad we seem to have lost the ability to have a civilised debate about the issues. I have friends on both sides. Had a good discuss in with a taxi driver two weeks ago. But even in this forum it can descend to name calling whether remoaners or brexit extremists.
I still think Bo Jo is a self serving dangerous idiot and Rees Mogg is a twat. Northing will change that.
It's clear to me if we end up staying close to the EU our influence now will be severely weakened. So from here we are better off out. Back to my original supposition after the vote. Get out quick and don't Pisa away two years negotiating for a crap deal.